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Friday, 23 January 2009 |
By Marius Gherghinescu
 You passed stage one, you met your dream girl and both of you need to unite the worlds you lived in when lonely. Like it or not, we all know that our lover's friends have always something to say about the relationship.
Usually all her friends call themselves observers, critics and bodyguards when it comes to their friend's love life. Her friends are important, so considering you passed the test, the relationship is accepted.
Truth is if you are not an out-going person, learning how to interact with strangers is not that easy and you will have to endure the pressure of meeting these people for the first time and make a good impression. The basic idea is that you need to do your best for not letting them gossip about a gesture or a word. You cannot do it without their help, so ask for it.
Here are some tips:
1. Remember their names
Attention to details is rule no. 1 to impress somebody. The first thing you find out about a person is the name. Remember it so
you can prove you care and use it when talking to the person. This thing can break walls that are between you and them and stresses the fact that you want to be part of the group.
2. Praise and speak nicely about your girlfriend in front of them
This is a cunning but risky business at the same time. You do not want them to think you are a flatterer. Try to be original, express your feelings naturally, do not exaggerate. Make compliments related to her beauty, clothes, smile, describe her best traits of character and say they are your favorite. Not only that you show you do not have a problem speaking about your feelings in public, but everybody understands you like her sincerely and tell this to everybody - it is a good idea.
3. Spend some money - offer to buy drinks
Everybody likes people that give something for free. This will be appreciated and they will consider your relationship to their friend as an Ok one so this way you can become one of them.
4. Be sure you give your attention to all
Show your best traits of personality but do not become too friendly with them because they are your girlfriend's mates, not yours.
It would be unrealistic to underestimate their opinion. Don't cross the line and get too close to them. Think that, after the meeting, they can become your best allies but also fierce enemies. Think of them as being part of the package and it is important to be in good terms with them.
Marius Gherghinescu
Easy Matchmaking
http://www.easymatchmaking.org/
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