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Wednesday, 28 January 2009 |
By Marius Gherghinescu
 It is well-known that getting too accustomed to each other kills love. You love each other but at the same time you get accustomed to each other so love is something monotonous, boring. How do you detect it? Simple, you do not do things together, you do not celebrate major events, the day of you wedding, the first date, the first kiss, and you are just mates sharing the same place.
There is no sign of divorce or changing the partner because you love each other and feel secure but it is a problem of getting too accustomed with each other.
What can you do?
1. Remember your first date
If you are a man, do exactly what you did on your first date: offer her the same flowers, the same box of candy, take her out to the same restaurant, walk together in the same park and kiss her on the same bench.
If you are a woman, get dressed into the same dress, use the same perfume, arrange your hair the same way and prepare a romantic dinner.
2. Be creative
Do something you did not do for a very long time or never, send love messages, put little notes in his/her pockets, organize a trip or a party with friends.
3. Explore your common hobbies
Do the same things that made you happy. You will appreciate it again and the relationship will get better.
4. Communication is everything
Myth or not, the lack of communication is killing relationships, and couples that communicate, discuss about everything, even small talk, are happy.
5. Attract his/her attention
Monotony is part of getting accustomed with each other so boredom needs to be avoided. How can you do this? Buy a gift; change your hair style or haircut.
6. External help
Ask for counseling. This is an extreme solution but do it, to be the happy and nice couple you used to be.
Marius Gherghinescu
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http://www.romanticdating.org/
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