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How to Get Back Your Ex - Lessons at Gunpoint |
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Written by Webmaster
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Wednesday, 25 February 2009 |
By Elmer Anthony Olaer
 Breaking up, divorce and lovers rejection are some of unpleasant moments of any relationship. Making it worse is that you are usually unprepared.
Fortunately there are some pointers available. Here is one powerful lesson you can learn from someone being robbed at gunpoint.
TW Jackson, author of Magic Of Making Up, explains that after your initial contact...you want to set up your "1st Date" again. And the MOST important part, the secret and the part nobody else seem to tell you is that the date has to be EMOTIONALLY CHARGED.
Okay? That doesn't mean 'dinner and a movie'; because...well...it's boring...and does not create a bonding...or in our case a re-bonding experience.
In fact, you want to pack in several emotionally charged mini-dates in a span of a couple hours. Why? If you just do 'dinner and a movie' you lose out on a Sociologically proven principle... Emotionally charged experiences = bond.
Look at it in another way. Last time you went to the bank, do you remember the person in line in front of you?
Behind you? Probably not. Me either.
But what if while you were in the bank, it was ROBBED AT GUNPOINT? And the robbers couldn't get the safe open. The robbers are livid, screaming and waving huge guns around. The tension feels so thick you could cut through it with a knife.
You are lying face down on the cold bank floor and can see your breath fogging up the tile below. You are trembling. It is eerily silent for a moment.
"Oh my god!" "Where are the robbers?" "Are they behind me?" "Are they watching me?"
So you slowly move your eyes around and see a sweet older lady lying right next to you. She looks a little like Grandma, and you come out of your own haze enough to realize that she is even more terrified than you. She is softly sobbing.
You slowly reach out and take her hand in yours and give her a little squeeze that says..."it's gonna be all right."
NOW! Let me ask? Are you going to ever forget that older lady? And do you think she will ever forget you? Not in a million Sundays!
Now...I'm not saying to go rob a bank on your first date! But you want to go on an emotionally charged and exciting date...and preferably several mini-dates in a span of a couple hours.
A short roller coaster ride is one great example. You need to learn more about things like emotionally charged dates.
Ask for advice. Learn from others. You don't need years of experience to know and follow love recipes for getting back the person you really love.
Love always find a way. Just do it.
Magic Of Making Up will teach you how to get your Ex BACK on that first date. You can also Meet new Friends at friends.olamacauguide.com.
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